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I suppose that that would work

2:03 AM

Though it would require the tulpa quiet developed and they would have probably figured out to vocalise first

Tulpish doesn't actually need emotion as a form of communication. It's more like a sense of intentionality... for lack of better words. Also tulpa creation can go very quickly if you are imaginative and have a predisposition to plurality.

Speaking of tulpa creation : does listening to music during the forcing process ruin it?

No real data exists for that question, but I don't see a reason why it would.

Depending on the music it might be distracting but it isn't likely to negatively impact your sessions.

Hey..........

11:17 AM

Umm what you guys usually do with your tulpa.....

We usually just talk, but we also go on adventures and jog through the forest in wonderland. They're like hanging with friends that you're very close to. Sometimes I just sit with them and don't know what to do, but no one gets awkward. I visualize them too, and they always like that. They just want to spend time with me, they don't really care how. (edited)

Wow

11:31 AM

That good to know.... we usually listen to music and just talk..... but I dont want him to get bored.... i think I should spend more time with him

You shouldn't be worried about him getting bored. It's something young tulpamancers worry about, so you're not alone. Only worry about it if they actually say, 'I'm bored."

Wow that nice thankss

I am trying to read every approved guide on tulpa.info, there are dozens, and they are all long, so it will take a while. Thankfully a lot of this stuff is common sense once you get the hang of it.

That nice. I hope you can finised it

man, tulpa’s guide v4 is a colossus

2:52 PM

its really good tho

2:52 PM

I started forcing last night but then sort of passed out to bed so I’m going to do my first proper session today after school

The glossary is kind of weird

2:59 PM

I don't understand how "headmate" is a joketerm but "mindghost" is not (edited)

2:59 PM

and "kything" isn't even a word anyone in this community uses

oh, I read somewhere that forcing at night/in the dark/before bed is better - is this true?

There's no right or wrong way to force

7:28 PM

just do what works for you

I use headmate as a normal term, not a joke?

As do most people

9:04 PM

but the glossary of Tulpa's guide said it was a joke term

._.

I feel like that's a bit of the writer's bias, I never really liked the term "headmate" but it was more serious than those other ones mentioned (edited)

I wouldn't use it as anything other than a joke.

So what's the preferred term?

We just say systemmate

Okay, thanks.

11:27 PM

Can you also say brothers/sisters?

Yes, it's just personal preference

about to start my first proper session before bed, first real session - I’m worried I’ll mess something up

2:53 AM

I don’t want to stunt Samael’s development or something by saying or doing something wrong

It's not gonna happen my dude

2:54 AM

There is no "messing up"

2:54 AM

Just do your best, do what works for you, and you'll be fine

2:55 AM

It's too early in his development for something you say to have a negative impact on him, anyway

okay wew

2:56 AM

I’m starting small tonight since I’m not a great meditator, maybe 10-15 mins

2:56 AM

might do 30 tho

2:56 AM

either way I’ll be building up in length

This is largely my own belief, but I find that the more important part is not the time you sit down and meditate, but the range of time at which you manage to include your tulpa in your day.

I often draw on my hand a symbol with which to remember things

Meditating is more important for clearing your mind in preparation for forcing, rather than as the actual forcing itself (edited)

So I wouldn't worry too much about trying to force for extended periods or long hours

Okay phew, thanks for the reassurance

I disagree with this, as I think active forcing is really important for early development

here we go, night fellas

3:03 AM

thanks

Good night/good luck

went for 10 mins just to start off with introductory stuff and to establish him in my brain - feelin good

Wow my tulpa is really shape up

10:01 AM

i dont have to focus fully on him any more he just there i just have to think about him little bit

Congrats Aori

thanksss

Thought I would place this here

3:54 PM

https://community.tulpa.info/thread-tulpa-progress--16345?pid=214657#pid214657

Might as well do mine too ^-^ https://community.tulpa.info/thread-asreal%E2%80%99s-progress-report

How do you paste a link? I get it, but it's not live. Just txt.

do you have a space separating it from whatever text is preceding it

Warning: long progress report. https://community.tulpa.info/thread-angry-bear-s-heroines (edited)

Angry Bear's Heroines

Preface: There will be no lies, no exagaduration, but no editing of my personal beliefs either. Your experiance may vary. If i am 'wrong' this only means i am not typical, or i am misinformed, that's

skimmed your thing

i refuse to read it because the spelling errors make me too angry

6:14 PM

i start seeing red and then i can’t see what you wrote because all i see is red and i think to myself “this was an awful idea why did i make myself see red now i can’t see anything but red for a while”

https://community.tulpa.info/thread-slightly-pointless-log mine

Slightly Pointless Log

Okay, first: The reason why I titled this 'slightly pointless' is because I've already gone through the whole creation process, so half the story is gone already. Yeah. ANYWAYS: This is just a log to

@evie I have to copy it out and replace it after i fix the errors. I just didn't care since spelling errors never bothered me before. I will do it tomorrow, so it shouldn't be too long. Though you probably will still have issues with it 'cause correcting the gramatical errors will turn into a complete rewrite and the dialog is really clunky. I don't know when i will get to that. I didn't bother to edit it much since these were just personal notes. I will probably fix it eventually though. Thanks for reminding me.

Or just copy and paste it and word to find the errors, then fix them on the post

That would probably work better, thanks. (edited)

hmmm

What are some good ways to try to talk to my tulpa? All I can think to say is "how are you" and "what did you do today"

Tell them a story Describe what's going on around you Read to them Write to them

(edited)

Writing/telling them a story is hard, I lack the creativity, even though I'm great at writing itself

11:05 PM

And I'd end up describing the same thing repeatedly

11:06 PM

(sorry if I seem impossible)

It's fine to repeat things

11:07 PM

You don't have to be creative

What's the point though if you just say "there's a desk next to me, I'm laying in bed" every day

Just write to them your thoughts (edited)

11:08 PM

The point is that narrating in any way strengthens their existence

I don't even understand my thoughts 99% of the time, I honestly think I don't have any

Have any movies or games you like? Tell them about that

11:08 PM

Have something that interests you, like history or science? Tell them about that

I have trouble talking about things in general, outside the context of a writing prompt(compare these 2 things based on these 2 articles, kind of thing)

just read off wikipedia

You can try recalling memories of things and sharing those with your tulpa

11:11 PM

Doesn't necessarily involve speaking

I know I'm gonna get the response "anything" but what should I read on wikipedia? Because I don't wanna be incredibly bored trying to read something like that. And my life is literally just a blur, nothing special, no specific memories, just a haze

11:11 PM

Again, sorry if I seem impossible

if you're just going to have ridiculous excuses for why you can't follow advice then why are you even asking?

11:11 PM

You're thinking about something right now. Talk about it.

The response is anything

"You're thinking about something right now. Talk about it." ok, "I'm being impossible to these people on discord" what more is there to say?

Pick something you like and read it to them

11:13 PM

Idk tell your tulpa how you think/feel about it?

11:14 PM

Tell them how you're going to respond to it and how you think/want people to react?

About what?